The Absolem is a textured silicone dildo designed for people who enjoy noticeable stimulation with a smooth, comfortable feel. Its distinctive stacked-ring shape, often described as looking like a tower of soft doughnuts, creates a rolling, bouncing sensation as the toy moves during thrusting.
Each rounded ridge glides smoothly while still being clearly felt, giving you texture that builds naturally with movement. Slow strokes highlight the soft, rhythmic ridges, while faster movement makes the stacked design feel more dynamic and engaging.
Available in four sizes and multiple firmness levels, Absolem lets you choose the balance of fullness, flexibility and texture that suits your body best.
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The Absolem is available in four sizes so you can choose the level of fullness that feels comfortable and enjoyable for your body.
Extra Small – More compact version of the design
| Measurement | Size |
|---|---|
| Total Length (including base) | 12.7 cm / 5.0 in |
| Insertable Length (usable) | 11.9 cm / 4.7 in |
| Diameter (at the tip) | 2.9 cm / 1.1 in |
| Circumference (at the tip) | 9.0 cm / 3.6 in |
| Diameter (at the widest point) | 3.6 cm / 1.4 in |
| Circumference (at the widest point) | 11.4 cm / 4.5 in |
| Base Diameter | 7.6 cm / 3.0 in |
| Base Circumference | 24.0 cm / 9.4 in |
Small – Balanced size offering noticeable texture
| Measurement | Size |
|---|---|
| Total Length (including base) | 15.2 cm / 6.0 in |
| Insertable Length (usable) | 14.0 cm / 5.5 in |
| Diameter (at the tip) | 3.4 cm / 1.3 in |
| Circumference (at the tip) | 10.5 cm / 4.1 in |
| Diameter (at the widest point) | 4.1 cm / 1.6 in |
| Circumference (at the widest point) | 12.8 cm / 5.1 in |
| Base Diameter | 8.0 cm / 3.2 in |
| Base Circumference | 25.2 cm / 9.9 in |
Medium – Fuller version with stronger presence
| Measurement | Size |
|---|---|
| Total Length (including base) | 20.3 cm / 8.0 in |
| Insertable Length (usable) | 17.8 cm / 7.0 in |
| Diameter (at the tip) | 3.8 cm / 1.5 in |
| Circumference (at the tip) | 12.0 cm / 4.7 in |
| Diameter (at the widest point) | 4.8 cm / 1.9 in |
| Circumference (at the widest point) | 15.0 cm / 5.9 in |
| Base Diameter | 8.7 cm / 3.4 in |
| Base Circumference | 27.0 cm / 10.7 in |
Large – Largest version providing the greatest fullness
| Measurement | Size |
|---|---|
| Total Length (including base) | 23.4 cm / 9.2 in |
| Insertable Length (usable) | 22.4 cm / 8.8 in |
| Diameter (at the tip) | 4.2 cm / 1.7 in |
| Circumference (at the tip) | 13.3 cm / 5.2 in |
| Diameter (at the widest point) | 5.5 cm / 2.2 in |
| Circumference (at the widest point) | 17.2 cm / 6.8 in |
| Base Diameter | 9.3 cm / 3.7 in |
| Base Circumference | 29.1 cm / 11.5 in |
Godemiche toys are made to order, allowing you to choose from a wide range of colour combinations.
You can select anything from simple single colours to multi-colour designs, fades and highlights depending on the product options available.
If colour choice isn't important to you, you can also select Godemiche Purple, our classic house colour or choose Surprise Me and let us pick a colour combination for you.
With dozens of colour possibilities, you can create a toy that feels uniquely yours.
Because each piece is handmade, colour placement and blending may vary slightly from one toy to the next.
If you'd like to see examples of colour styles, explore our Godemiche Colour Guide .
▶ FIRMNESS OPTIONSThis toy is available in four silicone firmness levels.
Extra Soft
Very flexible and compresses easily during use, creating a gentle cushioned feeling.
Soft
Flexible and comfortable while still providing some structure.
Medium
Balanced firmness that holds its shape while remaining comfortable. Texture is usually more noticeable at this firmness level.
This is the most popular option for most customers.
Firm
Provides the most structure and resistance during use. This can make texture feel stronger and more defined.
If you're unsure, Medium is the most popular choice for most customers.
▶ HOW TO USEAbsolem was created for people who enjoy noticeable texture but still want a smooth, comfortable experience.
The stacked ring design produces rhythmic stimulation during thrusting while the rounded ridges keep the surface easy to glide.
The octagonal flared base was also designed to improve control during use. The flat sides provide extra grip when thrusting, even when your hands are lubricated, while still fitting securely in most strap-on harnesses.
By offering multiple sizes and firmness options, the goal was to give texture lovers the ability to tailor the experience, from gentle rolling sensation to more defined textured stimulation.
▶ MATERIALS & SAFETYMaterials
Platinum-cured silicone is considered the gold standard for body-safe sex toys due to its durability, flexibility and resistance to bacteria.
Body Safety
Do not use with silicone-based lubricants.
Cleaning & Care
Storage
Is the Absolem very textured?
The texture is noticeable but rounded and designed to create stimulation through movement.
Which size should I choose?
Extra Small and Small provide lighter fullness, while Medium and Large create stronger presence.
Which firmness should I choose?
Medium is the most popular option because it balances comfort and texture definition.
Can the Absolem be used with a harness?
Yes. The flared base makes it compatible with most strap-on harnesses.
Is the Absolem a ribbed dildo?
Yes. The stacked rings create ribbed stimulation that is more noticeable than the light ribbing found on products like ribbed condoms.
Why does the Absolem have an octagonal base?
The octagonal flared base gives you flat sides to grip when thrusting, making the toy easier to hold even when your hands are lubricated.
Which size shows the texture the most?
Texture perception is personal. Choosing a size you normally use will show the intended texture clearly. Choosing a size up can increase stretch slightly, which may make the ridges feel more noticeable.
Is this dildo suitable if I’m new to textured toys?
Yes. The rounded ring design makes the texture easier to explore compared with sharper textured toys.
Will each toy look exactly like the photos?
Each toy is handmade, so colour placement and small visual variations can occur.
Handmade Production Time
All Godemiche toys are handmade to order.
Current production times can be found here: How long orders take
Shipping Information
Orders ship once production is complete.
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Discreet Packaging
All orders are shipped in plain, discreet packaging.
International Shipping
International shipping is available and delivery times vary depending on location.
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